These ladies are the queens of the sex industry, the boss ladies who keep the bars and brothels running like well-oiled machines. They know what the guys want, and they’re not afraid to deliver – for a price, of course.
When you get to a bar, take a moment to survey the room. Look for the mamasan – she’s the one who looks like she’s seen it all and still hasn’t lost her sense of humor.
Mamasans and farang have a complicated relationship. On one hand, the mamasans rely on the farang to keep the money flowing and the bar hopping.
On the other hand, the farang are often seen as nothing more than walking wallets, with the mamasans doing whatever it takes to get as much cash out of them as possible.
But it’s not all business. The mamasans and farang often develop a unique bond that goes beyond the transactional nature of their interactions. Some mamasans become like surrogate mothers to the farang, dispensing advice and wisdom along with their drinks.
And some farang become regulars at the bars, forming close friendships with the mamasans and the girls who work there. (chai mai buddy ? 🙂 )
Of course, there are always those farang who try to take advantage of the mamasans, thinking they can get away with paying less or skipping out on the bill altogether.
But these guys quickly learn that the mamasans are not to be trifled with – they may look sweet and demure, but they can be as tough as nails when they need to be.
All in all, the relationship between mamasans and farang in Pattaya is a complex and fascinating one, full of ups and downs, laughter and tears, and plenty of naughty fun. So come on down to Pattaya and see for yourself – you might just find yourself falling under the spell of one of these badass mamasans.
“Mamasans are like cats, they can sense fear and desperation.”
Tony, manager of Toybox located on Soi 6.
Now you want to date ma’ ??
Let me put you some things in perspective first.
Let’s talk about the pros.
For one, dating a mamasan means you’re with someone who knows the ins and outs of the bar scene.
She can get you discounts on drinks, introduce you to her friends, and make sure you’re always having a good time. Plus, she’s probably got some stories to tell that’ll make your hair stand on end.
But what about the cons? Well, for starters, there’s the fact that she’s a mamasan. That means she’s working in a bar, and that can come with its own set of challenges. You might get jealous when other guys hit on her, or feel uncomfortable with the constant attention she gets.
And let’s not forget the fact that she’s in the business of making money – if you’re not careful, you could end up being just another customer. Yes that’s Pattaya..
Of course, not everyone sees dating a mamasan in a negative light. Some people swear by it, saying that it’s the best decision they ever made. They argue that mamasans are some of the most loyal and caring partners you’ll ever find.
After all, they’re used to taking care of customers all day long, so why wouldn’t they take care of their partner just as well?
But then again, there are those who say that dating a mamasan is a recipe for disaster. They warn that mamasans can be manipulative and controlling, and that they’ll never truly be able to separate their work from their personal life.
They argue that you’ll always come second to the bar, and that you’ll never be able to have a real relationship with someone who’s in the business of selling sex.
So, what’s the verdict? Is dating a mamasan a good thing or a bad thing? Well, that’s for you to decide.
But one thing’s for sure – it’s definitely not for the faint of heart.
If you’re up for the challenge, then go for it.
Who knows, you might just find the love of your life in a dingy Pattaya bar.
But if you’re not, well, there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
Or should I say, mamasans in the bar..
Happy Hunting,
Buck Turner,
with love ♥️